This book is designed with you in mind.
Use this book as a journey of self-discovery. Designed to provide you with tools to further your relationship with God, as well as help you with interpersonal relationships. It could change the direction of your life. It will challenge you to be the best you can be. It will help you grow and develop in areas where you may be weak.
Challenge
It is important to have goals in life! Why not take up the challenge to learn more about who you are and where you are going. Take up the challenge to be the best you can be!
Invest
We’re not talking about money but time. Investing is so much more than wasting time or even spending time. When you invest you expect a return so why not invest in yourself.
Share
The best way to take this course is with others. Why not share this experience with your friends and work through it together? It’s best to be in a group of similar age and experience.
What this will mean for you?
Life! for Singles Course
An opportunity to discover who you really are, a valuable investment for your future!
Designed with you in mind
Your personality, your character, your relationships!
A journey of self-discovery
Discover your true value and worth. Learn what makes you unique and without equal.
God
Designed to provide you with tools to further your relationship with God, as well as help you with interpersonal relationships
Interpersonal
Designed to provide you with tools to help you with interpersonal relationships. It’s easy to settle for superficial relationships but God intended us to enjoy deep long lasting friendships.
Direction
This could change the direction of your life, encourage you to be the best you can possibly be.
What's inside?
Exploring life has never been so much fun.
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What people are saying!
Did you receive the information you expected?
And more! I truly felt blessed at the end of the meeting.
Was the program beneficial to you?
Very helpful for understanding my feelings and more important how to present them to God.
Thank you so much as I have learnt how much I can grow with God’s help.
I really enjoyed this course. The speaking and demonstration was spot on. The use of diagrams and information was well explained. It helped me identify with different areas of self and connection to God. I received more than I expected.
It is important to use the time while being single to develop yourself, this helped me understand how to improve. Questions were answered very well and I received more information than I expected.
The course was really good at providing a safe and comfortable environment for sharing and exploring things that are important to single Christian life. Would loved to have had more time!
I learnt more about myself and what qualities I am looking for.
We had lots of time to think about the things being presented and lots of time for questions.
Brilliant!
It provided a good starting place for me to know myself better and grow with God’s guidance.
Great information, knowledge and discussions within the sessions.
Would have been great to have more time.
Core Elements
Who am I?
Understand that God made you and that He created you to be unique. Before you can search for the right one you need to become confident in who you are. You are made up of three parts, body, soul and spirit; each part is important. Identify your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats and learn how to maximize the positive and minimize the negative.
Why am I?
Understand that God not only exists but has a plan for you. You have been given a unique design with that plan in mind. Marriage might be part of God’s plan but it won’t be the end purpose so it is important that you discover your calling. You can discover what God’s purpose is if you ask Him. Understand the difference between career and calling. Identify the season that you’re in.
Be the right friend
Recognise that friendship is not something you can take for granted. Consider your reputation as a friend and recognise you need to build strong long lasting friendships. Recognise and remove destructive friendship patterns. Remove the masks you hide behind which can be destructive to relationships.
Choose the right friends
You can choose your friends and not just fall into friendships accidentally. Evaluate your current friendships and how healthy they are. Recognize that you need to nurture your friendships and recognize your need for friendship with God. Understand that a good marriage is built on a good friendship.
Be the right one
Change your focus from finding or choosing the “right one” to becoming the “right one”. Endeavour to make true and lasting changes from the inside out. Take a closer look at the realism of your “checklists” and whether you would measure up if you were judged by the same standards.
Choose the right one
Recognise that choosing the right marriage partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever have to make because you enter into a marriage covenant. Remove the myths associated with love and establish truths which will enable you to choose the right one. Recognise God has given you a freewill but He also gives advice on how to make the right choice.
The dating game
Realise that your cultural expectations may not be the same as God’s plan. Understand the impact that recreational dating can have on someone’s life. Learn how to pace and avoid racing into romantic relationships to avoid making poor relational decisions. Understand God’s plan for blessing.
The reality of sexuality
Establish firm spiritual, emotional and physical boundaries to put God on the throne in the area of your sexuality. Learn about honour and character and identify the difference between love and lust. Choose to establish purposeful purity.
In the meantime
Learn what you should be doing now, not ‘just’ waiting but living life to the full. Practice the principles you will learn from this course. Deal with external pressures and face your fears head on by taking them to God!
In this course you will:
Rewind
Examine your past beliefs, behavior and attitudes. Looking at the past might be painful but it can help identify mistakes that affect you not only today but could also impact your future.
Pause
Stop and evaluate. A time to think about your actions and attitudes and how that affects you and those you have relationship with.
Fast forward
Provides a glimpse of the future, it asks the question “If I change nothing what can I expect my future to look like?”
Examine continuous loops
Identify your life patterns or habits that keep you going in circles. Ask God for help to break negative patterns and establish Godly ones.
Stop
A reminder that sometimes you need to stop doing the old things if you want to see your lives change for the better.
Discuss
As a group you will have plenty of opportunity to discuss the things that important to your life. The discussions are designed to get beyond the superficial and to the significant, enabling you to understand what being the best you can be means for you.
Tap into Power
A reminder to rely on God to help you to change and not just your own strength.
Play
Decide what tangible next steps you can take and take them.
Record
Write down your thoughts as you move along this road of self discovery.
Information
Make use of supplemental information and materials available online.
Get started!
Facilitator’s and Participants manuals available
Resources available for course members and facilitators in both full colour, perfectly bound, paperback versions.
Facilitator's Manual
High quality, perfectly bound, full colour paperback facilitator’s manual. 120 large format pages.
Participant's Manual
110 page full colour, large format, perfectly bound, paperback manual.
Future books
Devotional and light format workbook.
